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Reluctance to Report

A majority of students do not report bullying in schools to adults. This can be due to fear of retaliation, not wanting to worry parents, being ashamed that they can't defend themselves, feeling that nothing can change the situation, and fearing the teacher or parent would make the situation worse.

There is also a reluctance to report witnessing an incident, for similar reasons. Reporting bullying will increase with anti-bullying programs because students will feel more confident in their own abilities to intervene, and the abilities of the school to make a difference.

Victims of Bullying

Most bullies bully children in their same grade at school, but sometimes the bully is older. Having a large circle of friends tends to reduce the likelihood of a child being bullied, while a slightly physically weaker, smaller and nonassertive child has a higher likelihood of being bullied.

Common Bullying Solutions That Are Not Successful

Bullying is a serious problem that requires long, consistent effort to keep away from your school. Some schools bring in a speaker and have an anti-bullying assembly, or hold a bullying awareness week. Just one event is not enough, however. There needs to be a long-term program to create long-term solutions.

What Works To Prevent Bullying

Schools need to have policies in place and procedures that are enforced. Bringing anti-bullying into every part of the curriculum can also go a long way. For example, language arts teachers can find required novels that give students empathy for others.

Why Children Become Bullies at School

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People used to think that bullies either have low self esteem and they bully to make themselves feel better, or they come from complicated homes.

Now more research has been done on the topic and many conclude that while the aforementioned topics are still relevant, a new thought is that bullies are higher on the social ladder and push others down to remain on the top of the hierarchy.

Bullying Behavior

Bullying occurs in every area of the world, despite vast cultural differences between some countries.

With girls, bullying is most likely to be indirect and they bully other girls.

With boys, bullying is usually direct and boys will bully both boys and girls. Boys tend to bully more than girls do, and in many cases, bullying occurs in groups. Bullying in schools tends to decline around age 14-15.

What Makes a Bully?

School bullies tend to share common traits such as aggressive, dominant, slightly lower than average intelligence and reading ability, and are of average school popularity. Many suggest that bullies may have poor social skills, have low empathy levels, and can be uncooperative.

Ways Schools, Parents, and Educators Can Prevent Bullying in Schools

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1. What is School Climate?

School climate is the overall quality and character of school life. A positive school climate goes a long way in preventing bullying in schools. Teachers and administrators can encourage a positive school climate by implementing the following:

2. Teach Kindness and Empathy

Children should know from an early age what effect their behavior has on others. They should be taught to see others' perspectives to help them understand other people emotionally.

3. Identify Gateway Behaviors and Warning Signs

Teachers are often busy, but if time is spent identifying warning signs of bullying and stopping these small behaviors right away, future distress can be avoided. Examples of 'gateway behaviors' include eye rolling, name calling, prolonged staring, back turning, ignoring, and laughing cruelly or encouraging others to laugh.

4. Create Opportunities for Connections

Make the school or classroom feel like a community. When students feel that their peers are part of their group or community, they will be less likely to bully and more likely to stand up to other students bullying and breaking apart the community they helped build.

5. Use the Arts

The arts can be a powerful tool in helping students reflect and express themselves when it comes to bullying in schools. For example, students could write a creative story about bullying. There could be a competition to create artistic anti-bullying posters that will be put up around the school, and the top 3 receive a reward. The possibilities are endless.

6. Participate in Simulations

A fun interactive idea to help reduce bullying in school is having students participate in simulations together. Have a class act out a bullying situation together and explore alternative ways to handle conflict. This will increase their empathy and help them come together to come up with bullying solutions.

7. Bring Peaceful Solutions

Peaceful solutions are the answers to bullying, not spreading more hate. Do not bully a bully, or encourage hate or violence in the student being bullied.

8. Remove Labels, Address Behaviors

Labeling a child as a bully does not help the situation. Teachers and parents should look at bullying behaviors instead of identifying who is a "bully."

9. Set Clear, Enforceable Rules

If bullying is a part of school and classroom rules, there is likely to be better prevention of bullying in schools. Rules should be in positive terms, cover multiple scenarios, and be age-appropriate.

10. Reward Positive Behavior

When students do something bad, they are called out. When a student does something good, it is important to bring attention to that as well. This shows the classroom that bad attention isn't the only type of attention.

11. Use Open Communication

Communication is key with bullying prevention. When children feel like they can talk to adults in their community, they are more likely to report bullying, and to avoid bullying by working out their feelings verbally.

12. Monitor Hot Spots

Identify areas of school, or certain sites that seem to have lots of bullying incidents and have a class monitor or school staff patrol the area.

13. Each Child is Different

Remember that every child will respond differently to being bullied, and when reprimanded for bullying. Tailor your methods to the individual child.

14. Listen!

Ask questions, stay involved, and be in the know about what is happening at school.

15. Take Actions

If you find out that there is bullying happening at school, take steps to prevent it. Start by identifying the situation and brainstorming causes. Talk to your child if you are a parent, or all children involved if you are a teacher. Come up with an action plan to prevent the bullying, and clear next steps if this doesn't stop.

16. Connect

Help your child or student connect with other friends by setting up play groups, study sessions, or offer to drive them to friends' houses on the weekends. The more connected your child is, the less likely they will be bullied.

17. Trust That Your Child Will Be Ok

It can be difficult to know that your own child is being bullied, but with your support and efforts it can go away. Remember that with time, your child will be okay.

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Is There Anything I Can Do If I Observe Bullying?

Of course! Stand up for the student, and let the bully know that bullying is not okay. Interrupt the bullying safely by asking the bully a question or asking them to go somewhere with you. If you feel uncomfortable stepping in, contact an adult as soon as possible. Make sure to report the incident.

Measuring Your Effectiveness

1. Both before and after implementing anti-bullying measures, it is advisable to take surveys to measure the effectiveness of a program. Examples of surveys include:

2. Percentage of victims by bullying type

3. Number of victims and number of bullies

4. Number of students who are knowledgeable about bullying and know how to intervene

5. Attendance, behavior, and discipline of bullies and victims

6. Bullying rates at 'hot spots'

Bullying in schools is a tough issue to tackle, but if schools, parents, and students all commit to stopping prevention and action, it can be stopped.

A Teacher Made a Hitler Joke in the Classroom. It Tore the School Apart.

Source: https://www.uopeople.edu/blog/definition-of-bullying/